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This is the Reason we don’t grow

He is ahead, I am behind. He is rich, I am poor. He is brilliant, I am dull. Do we do this comparison all the time in life? We are constantly comparing ourselves with everyone else around and trying to move forward. Compare, Compete and Compromise are the 3 words driving our current life.

Comparing with people, competing with the circumstances and Compromising on Happiness.

Where is this leading us?

It is leading us towards STD i.e. Stress, Tension and Depression.

When does comparison start?

It starts at an early age and carries on till death.

Where do we learn it from?

Our parents I guess. Have you seen parents comparing either you with your sibling or you with your neighbour? Each one of us is very unique in our own ways but still the comparison. Why does this happen? It’s because parents can’t see what is the available quality but trying to make a copy out of the child.

What do we do with the Learning?

We then start to compare with kids who have much better than us. The…