Relationship Bonding has been a major problem these days and
a lot of divorces are taking place due to lack of understanding
between Husbands and Wives. Here is a way to work around
the relationship issues.
“All the world's a stage” is a famous phrase from Shakespeare’s
“All the world's a stage” is a famous phrase from Shakespeare’s
play “As you like it”. We all loved to watch these plays & also created
a lot of movies that were based on these plays. Even today
we continue to take inspiration from these plays and pick many virtues
that existed in people.
These days we are too inspired by the movie stars, isn’t it? We want
to look like them, dress up like them and be associated with them. We
follow their personal life so closely that sometimes we may not be
aware what’s happening with our relatives but we are aware of their
lives. Well, it’s the Media and the Newspaper which makes us aware.
Since we spoke of virtues, let’s look at the virtue called “LOVE”. Many
or almost all the movies are having some Love story angle to the
movie. A typical movie would run in a format where
1) Hero & the Heroine are people who may share either the same interests or maybe different.
2) Hero looks or meets’s the heroine at someplace.
3) They both have a short conversation either through the eyes or small talk.
4) They then hit a common ground for future life & keep meeting each other for various reasons.
5) Sometimes the heroine gets upset & the hero tries everything to pursue her by trying some ideas from a love story movie.
6) Then after some journey of life together they decide to get married.
2) Hero looks or meets’s the heroine at someplace.
3) They both have a short conversation either through the eyes or small talk.
4) They then hit a common ground for future life & keep meeting each other for various reasons.
5) Sometimes the heroine gets upset & the hero tries everything to pursue her by trying some ideas from a love story movie.
6) Then after some journey of life together they decide to get married.
Now the real story starts…
Love before marriage is blind & deaf as no one looks at the real story
and post-marriage we tend to get more influenced by others.
“Scene 1”
The heroine had a bad day at work and comes home. She is cooking but
still thinking and adds less salt to food. Hero eats food and shouts at
Heroine. The heroine is upset. Where are the persuasion skills?
“Scene 2”
The heroine is a housewife & unwell. The hero has called some friends at
home without checking with wife but wife won’t cook. Hero shouts at
heroine due to his EGO.
Heroine upset. Where are the persuasion skills?
There are many more such scenarios which lead to strained relationships.
Tips for better understanding:
- Give each other time when at home and not to Whatsapp
- Look at the love, not the food
- Be understanding, not EGO standing
- Small gifts work wonder (Especially if it’s something likable)
- Praise in front of all, feedback when alone
- Try to get into the kitchen to understand how she feels
- Love her, don’t change her
HERO boy.
All you will be remembered for is what you
gave… Give Love Get Love
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