Tips to make your relationship chocolaty

 

I was eating gems this morning after a very long time and thinking why I love gems? The small and colorful round shaped chocolates are so delicious to eat. The colors just attract me towards this sweet little chocolate. Even if they are a little broken, I would still eat them. The price is also so less that you can keep eating loads of it and still not get bored. The word BFF (Best Friends Forever) on the cover and the colorful packaging makes eating gems more delightful.

Wish even our relationships could be as delightful as eating gems. This thought just got me diving deep into a thought process and I just realized that it may just be possible with some effort.

Everyone is sweet

 

These gems are inexpensive but human life is very precious. Everyone is an emotional being and is filled with some qualities. Everyone has a USP of his/her own. USP here is not being referred to a marketing term but it means that all are Unique Special Persons. There has to be some quality in people which make them special. Over a period of time we have been so used to looking at the weaknesses that we have forgotten to look at the strengths of the people. If we can only start looking and appreciating the strengths of each other, then our relationships can be much sweeter.

Everyone is Colorful

 

Every human being is colorful in their own sense. Each one has their own nature, likes, dislikes, needs, way of expression, way of dressing up, etc. This is what makes us different and colorful. Some of the characteristics are influenced by the innate qualities of the soul and the others are influenced by our upbringing, friend circle, surroundings and the information we consume. The caste, color, language, dressing, etc may be different but we all laugh, cry and go through the same human’s emotions. We are different but still the same. Finally everyone wants 2 things i.e. Love and Appreciation. Both these aspects are important to each one.

Everyone is a little broken

 

All of us go through the hardships or struggles in life. The reaction may vary though. Someone was ignored as a child (mostly in case of a girl child), someone was lonely due to their looks, their financial status, someone suffered losses in business, someone lost a job, someone went through an emotional downfall, someone lost loved ones early, etc. I am sure that everyone has gone through something which makes trusting people or facing situations in different ways. We will never know their story unless we know them really well. We are all a part of the same society so respecting each other and trying to accommodate and understand people is of utmost importance.

Everyone is a part of BFF

 

In a lot of conferences held in the world everyone speaks of brotherhood and oneness. Brotherhood has also been spoken about in many religious books, prayers, Independence Day celebrations of various countries, pledges, etc. The leaders have also spoken on brotherhood but we still see the countries ready with their nuclear power, ready to attack at any movement from another country. We as individuals are jealous of each other to the core. No one wants to help each other and part away or share their knowledge or experiences. As if it was something we brought at birth and will take away when we die.

Life is all about sharing knowledge, happiness and joys. Wealth is needed by all but sharing the other things will not lessen it in your armory. In fact it will make your life more fuller. If we can just be in the BFF (Big Family Feeling) and look at everyone as a family member then the earth would be a better place to live and we would not need a peace conference. It’s the responsibility of each one of us to contribute.

Everyone is a part of the Package

 

All of us are sweet, colorful, a little broken, part of BFF and also in a round package called EARTH. I just appeal each one to pray for each other and also for our environment as we are indebted to the
resources that we are using to keep ourselves alive and moving in this life.

Hoping that putting these tips to use can make our relationships more Chocolaty.